Thursday, January 14, 2010

Convenience When It Suit You Best

Laughable. Really laughable. People are really funny. They preach and they talk and they say everything and anything when it best suit them in whatever situation that put them in the best light. Oh and they tend to develop memory lost or memory alterations when you try to call them out on it. Makes you question yourself if you are going mad or senile or just getting an early symptom of Alzheimer, huh?

I recent got into an argument with this guy regarding another friend of ours. I was basically defending or helping the other guy out seeing that I felt bad that he was in that situation was partly because of me in the first place. And this guy (who I will refer as Mr P for ease of reference) was hammering at this friend like he was some a week old leftovers. And I thought "Gosh, do you even regard him as a friend at all man?" And so I said to Mr P that if he could say and do what he did to this supposed friend of his because of something petty that he himself is being petty about, then he doesn't regard him as a friend then. And he said yes without a pause.

Which makes me question more if Mr P ever consider this guy a friend in the first place. To be mad and angry at him for something petty that no ones cares about. At something that he and him alone is being all worked up because he has issues the other related parties.

Oh the best part is that not a few months ago Mr P was giving me a thrashing for being mean to this very same friend of ours. (Yes I admit I had been somewhat hostile towards this guy since I was fed with misleading guidance and information about this guy from our very own Mr P. Well not so mislead, more on not putting him in very good light. Just the bad light). I got thrashed for being hostile to his FRIEND, he dare say then.

So as I was sitting there listening to him telling me that he does not treat this guy a friend, that got me thinking and I can't help but to smile that humans will be humans. When the situation suits the circumstances, you change and adapt to survive.