Useless Boyfriend - Part 1

Okay don't take it the wrong way or idea. I'm not saying that all boyfriends are ATMs (tho some of us wouldn't mid if we do have one =P). So anyway, I believe that as a partner, regardless of it is a girl or a guy, eventually that said person would have be financially supportive to the other. If I can't rely on my boyfriend to be there for me when I need help, be it financially or emotionally, he should be there for me as I would be there for him.

So here's the deal. I was truly disgusted by someone I know. His girlfriend call another friend of mind to ask if she could borrow some cash to get a new mobile as her old one was thrashed. So yea my friend said okay but asked why is she asking him for money when her boyfriend is clearly standing next to her (she was using his phone) and he is not poor either. So off they went in an argument where she was trying to defend her 'noble' boyfriend while my friend was pissed at the guy. Eventually the truth came out when she said that she was reluctant to ask from her own boyfriend because she was afraid that he will reject her request to BORROW some cash to get her mobile. She was afraid that he would reject her or ...*gasp*... reluctantly borrow her the money because he feels OBLIGATED to borrow the money to her. What kind of boyfriend is this? She is not even demanding that he buy the phone for her. It would be a loan. And he is not even poor or unemployed (I know he isn't because he works in the same place with me and he is not getting an undercut pay either).

I was really speechless when I heard that. She rather ask from a friend then turn to her boyfriend for help. And that boyfriend is thick skinned enough to let her ask from her friends and not even bothered to offer to help. So yea I mighty disgusted by the fact that I know someone as immature as this guy.

**UPDATE**

Today I was told that there was new revelation over this matter. It seems that he (the useless bastard aka the man-child aka the boyfriend) did hear what my friend said to the girlfriend on the phone. And after she ended the call with my friend (and presumably she went her own way after that), the useless arse calls to tell her that He. Will. Lend. Her. RM100 only. My jaw drop all the way to the floor when I heard that. And mind you my friend was willing to lend her RM400 at that moment. So anyway, she asked him why is he borrowing her the money now and he said this. "You can't expect me to stand there and listen to my girlfriend asking money from someone else". Humph he could have offered earlier and save all this . But still RM100 only? When what she needed and was asking for is RM400. How cheap could you be man?

Oh and so eventually she asked him is he just doing this because he wants to save face and avoid embarrassment . And guess what he said? "So what if I am?". Well he should have thought better then. Before all this commotions. And still RM100 ONLY?

I can't wrap my head around it. If you want to be some one's SIGNIFICANT OTHER then take up the responsibility and suck it up. Don't give excuses. If you want to remain as an arse and immature then don't go dragging someone else into your life and make their life miserable. Enuf said.

**UPDATE** (16/03/09)

Apparently he is not just an a**hole, he is also still a child at the age of 24 years old because he has no control on his own financials. Strangely enough there are people like this in this world. I have never met one till now. Grow a spine please.

Anger Management.

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